How to Survive Your Twenties?

 

My first point is travel, now some people may say you have years and years to do this but in your twenties you are not expected to be ranking it in so working in a bar in a different country is not such a bad thing, go see the world because after all you only live once and when you are in your twenties you have reached the peak of your althtic ability so you can enjoy the world a lot more. My grandmother has been traveling the world since she retired but there are certain things she struggles with that maybe if she had been young she would be able to see full.
The second thing I would like to say is about work. Now I’ve never really had a job, I actually got my first job during the summer which waitressing, it was just twice a week but it was something. Any ways carringing on, I think a lot of people stress so much about getting a job, now of course don’t be one of those people sitting on there are expecting a really well paid job to come to you but equally don’t stress about not finding something. You may have a degree, you may not but find something you enjoy and that’s what is important because most people in there twenties find a job and that’s the job they have for the next fourth something years. Like my dad at the age of thirty got a job, and he has the same job twenty one years later, he doesn’t really like it but it is a really well paid job for not doing much, so basically make sure that everything lines up.
My third point is relationships, now I live with a girl who wanted a baby and eighteen, two years later I think she would be so happy if she had a kid now, her boyfriend probably wouldn’t as he is very get a job and be careful. Now I am a little old fashioned when it comes to kids, I think you should do the whole getting married, get a house and then have a kid and honestly think more people should be doing this. Yes a lot of people have kids in there early twenties but you are losing a lot of time where you can figure out what you want and how you want to be. Now before I get some bitch complaining about I just want a kid. You can still have that bloody kid just have some time when you are out of education when you have no strings to do something different, don’t get out of school or college or uni or whatever else and then have a kid. Yes you maybe happy and everything, the kid maybe your world but I honestly think you should be using your twenties to be selfish.
Experiment, this is my finally point. Sure you could try a gay relationship, you could try a straight one. You could try a legal high drug (I am not going to condone taking anything illegal but legal highs are just as good) change your hair colour, try and learn an instrument and most importantly fall in and out of relationships like no body knows. Everyone one of those things are important and can make you in to a better more rounded person, so don’t just get out of school and grab the first thing you see look around and see what the world has to offer you, and make sure you have fun because after all your twenties create the person you are, and you would rather be positive than negative.

#InternationalWomansDay

Many of you may think that I am anti-feminist, that is not true I am anti third wave feminist. Yes there is a different before anyone says anything, Due to the tantied word for me there’s days I no longer call myself a femmist, I call myself a equalise, because I am a strong supporter of everyone’s rights. I think everyone should have the same opportunities and the same rights.

So if you choose to not go to work today can you make sure that if your job has an impact of anyone’s life or education that you make sure that there is someone to take your place. What would happen is a Doctor, who had to perform a lifesaving opporation today failed to turn up? What happened if a lawyer didn’t turn up and there client ende up going to jail for a crime they didn’t do? They won’t take the day off because they know that them going to do there job has a bigger impact than going to some march.

If I had a child and I found out the school was closing due to this march I would phone up the school and scream down the phone (I mean that’s what liberals do when they don’t get their way) I just don’t think that a school should close because a few woman want to take the day off, it is not right. I think any woman how has a postion of power and take the day off should be fired.

What I find even funnier is that these woman will post pictures on Instagram, twitter, Facebook and all over the internet using there phones and tablets all in support of how the world will crumble without them are using Men’s products to spread the word. Like what?

Let’s talking about something which really matters, in Iran on march 4th 2004 police beated hundreds of men and woman who were planning a rally. They then put hundreds of woman in several days of solitary so that they couldn’t march on the eighth like the did the previous year. They are the people that need woman’s day’ they are the people that you need to go over and march fo to show that Woman are badass.

In countries like Pakistan this day is so show that woman are still be oppressed in this day age and it is to commemorate their own going struggles. They need this day to be able to get people to notice that they are people as well, and it is not just a man’s world. Those are the people I support, those are the people that re fighting for their lives.

Does anyone actually know what the UN has classed this day as this year? because for those who don’t know every year the UN has a theme which is what International Woman’s day is suppose to represent every year. This years it is meant to represent ‘Woman in the Changing World of Work’ How are you meant to change the world of work, if you are not at work? My mother has changed her world of work but turning up every day and making everyone see that she is more than just a woman. She is brave she is powerful and she can make sure that everyone will and can benefits to the impact that she makes.

My mother works for an architect firm and she was the first woman on the board of the directors and she was the fist non-architect. That is her making a difference, by being at work and showing how much her comanpy need her, not by shouting out ove every little thing, be a strong independent woman.