Conservative and Pro-Choice…

I know that sentence may be a little weird for most people to understand as pro-life has become apart of being of the right wing, in America. I don’t think it is such a big deal in the UK many people don’t actually have a clue which is which, because in my country it is not such a big deal, people have there views put abortion is not about to lost it’s funding, not that I would actually care because I don believe that poeple should pay for their own abortions in this country.

The reason I am pro-chocie for is a simple reason, to me killing a fetus is the lesser of the two evils, then letting a child grow up away from their birth parents. Before, people start to look me and think I am strange, my mother was put in the care system. She was lucky and got adopted at a very young age. she grew up in a middle class family and ended up going to one of the best schools in the country. She is thankful for her life, she knows that it wouldn’t have been the same if her mother had decided to keep her. She has never met her mother and so she came up with the theory saying that her mother was most likely a teenager who didn’t understand how birth control was meant to work. (Birth control was completly different back in the sixties and many people didn’t know they needed to take it every day) That is just a story she told herself, she has never gone looking because she doesn’t want to break anyone’s heart. I believe she should have done it when my grandfather died but she just didn’t want to basically say to my grandmother, ‘I love you but I need to know who my parents are.’ My mother get’s upset when I mention adoption, and frankly I don’t think I could ever put a child in that system because of my mother. That is my choice, I would rather in theory kill a baby to do that to a child, so that they don’t have to spend everyday wondering where their parents are, and why they are in this situration.

There is also a slightly darker side, which maybe rare but I would never want to risk it, just incase. For those who don’t know if you choose to foster someone then you are given money by the state to look after the child. Some of those who do foster do it out of the kindness of their heart but there are others which are not so giving and kind. I knew this person, I won’t use names because they don’t like to talk about it. Basically she was fostered at the age of thirteen, and age which is difficult anyway. Her foster parents were horrible to her, she was nothing more than away to get money. They use to sell her off to people to have sex with her in order to get more money from her. I know it is rare and that is unlikely to happen but I don’t want to put a child in to the system if that could at all happen. I know it is rare but those sorts of stories is why I hate the care system. I want to adopt a child and I will support them if they wish to find their parents because I think that would be rewarding but I know not everyone else is like me and therefore that is why I would rather get rid of a fetus then put my child in to harm.

I don’t want to have a child until I am economically ready, if I am raped I would like to have the option of getting rid of that child. Yes I could stop having sex but that doesn’t always work. I am currently on two types of birth control so I have already limited the changes of getting pregnant. That is my personally opinon, if you are pro-life I have no issue for that because I know that some people are completly against killing fetus, I personally just couldn’t give brith to a baby that I don’t want and put them in the care system.

I am in a long distance relasionship so I don’t actually have sex that much, so yeah that means I am good at the moment.

The only issue I have with abortion is if you use it as birth control. It should only be used if you have been raped or your birth control has fail, or a medical condition. In theory is should be used as a last result.

If you are pro-life, fine. P ersonally that is not for me.

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